Wednesday, October 13, 2010

How should a guy step to you???

Click me: "Can I have yo numba???Can I have it?"

"Dig this baby, Heaven must be missing an Angel, cuz I'm looking at one right now!"
"Hey shawty wat yo name is? Watz yo sign?"
"Yo babe is it hot in here or is it just you?"
"Girl..If I could rearrange the alphabet I would put U and I together!!"
Okay those lines are extremely wack!!! But for my ladies out there, a guy probably stepped to you in this manner at some point. I mean, guys must be crazy thinking they can scoop us up like that. But how should a guy approach you? Should he be polite? Funny? Charming? Sound educated? what does it take for him to get your time?  (Read More)

Personally, I like a guy that is bold and steps to me with confidence like a man. If a guy comes at me with a lame line, I will straight up laugh in his guess it depends on who the guy is though.Some guys are smooth enough to get away with it because they have the personality. Others aren't so lucky and look like a fool. But I'm sure we all can agree that guys that are the stalker type is a definite NO NO. Don't act like you don't know what I'm talking about!! You know, the kind  that will buy you something and feel like he has the right to follow you around or call you 24/7? Yeah that guy!!!

Sometimes I think it's so weird how the nice guys always seem to finish last. The jerks/thug looking dude seem to always get the girl. But I think some women play hard to get with the nice guy who will treat her right, but go all goo goo over the scrub that is unwilling to put in the time and treat her like the queen she is. Then they complain later about how much of a jerk Tyrone is. DONT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU. I think that if a guy is showing you interest and he's being genuine and you like him, then you should just give him the time of day eventually because he may not be around all the time.

And wanna know what guys I CANNOT stand???You know that guy that think he's all that and a bag of chips and the minute he steps to you...he knows for a FACT he just got you!!!!This guy is just some overly confident pighead, but most women fall for them anyways...I guess it's that charm!!!lol..But when some guys step to you, you see S-E-X in there eyes!!!lol..I don't know if it's just me who have seen that, but some guys are so obvious!!!!We know you want it, but dang, atleast act like you got other intentions!!!!

Overall, no matter how you like a guy to approach you, I'm sure we can all agree that we like a guy who approach us respectfully!!!Someone who will not just step to us, but show us that they deserve our time. Now the aftermath of saying yes to a guy is unpredictable since you only know what the person look like on the outside. You may end up with a stalker, a psycho, a control freak, or all of the above!! But if your lucky, you'll end up with a nice, decent guy- if your lucky-...but it's up to you what you want to deal with!

This is just my opinion- Feel free to speak your piece (lick on the title of the post to comment). Ladies let me know what kind of guys you like and how you want him to approach you...and fellas, you can let us know what is going on in your mind when you spit your lame lines!!!lol..


  1. This is so true!!!Guys are so dumb sometimes!!lol..

  2. Hi there, I am Nayjah. I just wanted to say that I really enjoy reading your post. They are quite interesting and i can honestly relate to all of them. It was quite a shocker to see your lack of followers! You are a great writer and you express your thoughts well. I can't wait for you next post/topic. KEEP 'EM COMIN!

  3. Thanks!!I just started my blog last Saturday so it's doing pretty good..

  4. Hey Tasha! u suck!!! lol jk you're awesome. I really hate guys that think you owe them sex when they pay for a cheap dinner and movie. Honestly, I think I like a guy who is intelligent and who is comfortable with being himself. I also cannot stand a guy thats a follower. Just because your friends are treating their women bad does not mean that you have to do the same thing. Its okay to actually be faithful and treat your woman like a queen without being a pushover.

    Keep it up Tasha Pierce!lol
    best, Bfree

  5. Lol..FINAALY found your way here after a month..but it's all good. But I agree..I am comment makes me think of the D.L. Hughley joke where he said the girl ordered the Lobster and the guy was like "Lobster comes with D!#k!!"LOL...Guys think that cuz they spendin a lil dough you gotta give it up. But it's up to us a women to know our worth. Also, I hate a follower too. I like a MAN that can do his own thing and be his own person and not easily peer pressured!!

  6. Yo T this Ced..I c u gettin ya grind on..but let me break it down fa you. I thnk yal females always be wantin that perfect guy. You cant accept a man fa who he iz cuz yal messed up in da head bout what a guy should be like. You either accept da guy fa who he is or keep it movin. I mean there's somebdy 4 eerbdy so the same line that dont work on u will prob work on sum1 else..yal females be trippin 4real though..

  7. Watz gud Ced??Dnt hear from you in a long time..Finally you decided to support my blog..wat a gud fren..NOT!!!lol..jk..But guys always want a woman to accept them and all this other stuff..does it always have to be yal all the time??And wat's this about women bein "messed up in the head??" There's nthnn wrong wit a woman sayin okay I want this guy and not accepting nothin but the best.And PLEASE stop using the word FEMALES!!!You make us sound so so cheap..